KSI LIFE | LET'S TALK...


I've made quite a few discoveries about myself lately. I USED TO BE a people pleaser! I would do anything and everything to make people happy in a drop of a hat even if I wasn't getting the same treatment in return. I ended up being a door mat!! Now that I'm not like that anymore, I'm taking my happiness into my own hands, doing things for myself I'm seen as SELFISH! Alot of friendships I've had in the past were very one sided all people did was TAKE TAKE TAKE! I would always go above and beyond for them but never got the same in return. I'm extremely sensitive to who I let around me these days, which for me means if I'm not getting a good vibe...I don't want you  around me! Problems always arise when I go against my gut.

A recent friendship I had was becoming very one sided I felt very suffocated and chlostraphobic. It was controlling and manipulative and only based on the other person's needs...always about how I could  make them feel better. It was becoming so exhausting, I started to dread being around them. I just had to step back an evaluate the situation.  My point is, it's essential to put your needs and happiness first. It's okay to be selfish regarding your own happiness. We're able to navigate who and what we surround ourselves with, not just in regards to people, but social media and other things as well. WE have that choice. YOU have that choice. Always make time for yourself. BE HAPPY! :-)